so my boyfriend has been expecting a package of vegan hamburger patties from his mom that has been cooled with liquid nitrogen. at the time I found out about this, I was all, “tell me when it comes so I can see it!!” because I’ve never seen dry ice before.
well, it came today, and I planned on coming over, but got bogged down with pre-departure stuff for school (leaving Friday) and ended up texting him to take a video for me because I have to do stuff. I figured it wouldn’t be a huge deal because we’ve been hanging out a lot lately and I’m seeing him later today anyway (part of the reason I want to get stuff done now—so I can still chill later).
he actually got upset at me over this. and I was like, “I’m sorry, I didn’t realize this was so important, but I’ve really got to send in research approval stuff for my thesis and do laundry and start packing so I can see you later today” and he’s all “WELL I THOUGHT YOU WERE COMING AND NOW YOU’RE NOT.”
I hate this kind of thing. We’ve been dating for 4 years. I feel like little stuff like this should be okay by now. And it’s not like he’d just let me leave after we opened the package. He’d be all “but we only have a few days left, stay longer…” And I understand that, but at the same time, I do need to get ready for school again and I also need to do that.
Idk. I love him, but he’s been kind of getting on my nerves lately, and I think I need to chill out a bit, but he also needs to stop doing some of this stuff.
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